Kevin wrote:
newbie baiting is unfair and unnecessary. it was suggested to me that i should ease my way in! should i bow my head when i walk into the same room as the clique???
Oh dear I didnt realise we were seen to be like that
The clique situation is not always what is seems and can just be a group of people discussing a problem or issue without realising that there is a new face at the meeeting, a think we try to avoid at all costs at our branch meetings, but you have to remember that some established faces are often too shy to speak to new faces and this can give the wrong impression.
Weathergirl if you are local to me come along to one of our branch meetings and you will just find a bunch of Moggie enthusiasts (in the main) glad to chat to new faces and bore you to death on our favorite subject

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As for the board I was not aware that there was a clique

or is that something else I was not invited to become part off
Climbs back under Large stone in a cool dark place

i am sure that each and every one of you are lovely helpful people, its the keyboard that brings out the worse in some.
ive been on forums where things kick off. (not me)
if the forum subject is not important to me, i just leave.
this forum is not like that at all. i just felt it was gonna be my turn.
if im fair, i wrote what i felt about forums in general because the subject was up there to be commented on.
ive never been on the 'wrong end' before on any forum except sport

but i expect that on there.
i dont want to actually apologise for my comments but i think i was too harsh for this forum. in general tho, it applies.
btw
i shall get that tie and practice that handshake
